Saturday

Felt totally lazy today haha~
But I finished 2 books within these 2 days :P
Moving on to the article of image consulting & others of book collection~
Request for book from frenz again~ motivation books again. (when will I finish all exactly while I keeping on looking for more of it? hahaha~)
As for today, I studied a lot basic & deep education.
I think is time to moving on again since alrdy prepared what I should do before everything getting started.
So i'll mail to my teacher after scan out, together with the article print out to refer anytime & read.
Hmm...recall the moment of 拜年. Nothing much special...
Not much changes but perhaps myself? I din really talked to any of them but I do pay attention with every single moment & the topic they talked.
Same as every year...As I alrdy knew/thought how they respond to those Q & A.
What's your occupation now? Do you drive? Boyfriend ? Blah Blah Blah!~
What I do as like always...keep quiet & stay agree with.( but on the other side I'll kept my own thought )
I studied to level up my EQ within a year, even now still keep on improving myself in every situation.
But still I felt very uncomfortable with 1 of their topic...
You studied a lot & you're clever than anyone here...why wont you get your own car?
My mum & bro even asked me the question when I mentioned about the courses : Why are you plan to register for courses again as you gave up your college 1?
I admit I gave up my college studies for some purpose...But I learnt what I learnt & I nvr return it to lecturer but get use to. I understand the importance of certificates, but it doesn't guarantee 100% of better position.
And I ain't aiming for a "job" anyway =)
Anyway...Actually I'm planning to go out window shopping & walked around shopping center today but becoz of I din hv any target & partners so I had to cancel my mind.
Maybe next week or during free times...To research around about fashion to improve profile & design.
Why I want my cat to come back? Becoz she could cheer me up by just seeing her lazy face if I'm a bit emo out of control of a day~ She's so cute!!~ XD

Image Consulting

Morning, went to had breakfast.
M mentioned a new project.
Image Consulting...
What do you think about after you heard about this?
Hmm...My very 1st time about it.
A very interesting verb.
What exactly is this about??
Well I had to studied about this since I need to work with it.
Basically It's about the fashion, images, design & clothing method.
Picture do shows message to us, so as our dressing.
What you wear says a lot about you. Together with what your word, discussion, body gestures, posture, manners, courtesy, etiquette etc.
It creates a significance in peoples minds. You actually can control what people see but you can't control what they feel.
By control what people see in you, you actually have to play the part of controlling what they feel with the right tools and knowledge.
Simple explanation : What you should dress & act for a meeting or interview?

"Image Consulting coach you to have the right attitude, tools & skills to build the right image that portrays professionalism & finesse for individuals & organizations. 


When we teach you about Body Language, you will be able to connect with people around you effectively just by reading their body gestures. This is especially a very important skill in Marketing, PR, Customer Service Industry & Job Interview.


Then we teach you about Social Etiquette, Dining & Networking. When you are entertaining your clients, do you pay or you make them pay and who orders first? As a lady is it graceful for you to extend your call card to a man first? For the man out there, is it ok for you to ask a women her age? Simple things like this could represent your mentality, social and education background and lack of sensitivity to the other party. And for the ladies do you wear mini skirts at the workplace and expect to be taken seriously?


Important to have the right image and portray it the way you want to be perceived by others. A professional image could lead you to a higher level in your life be it your career advancement or personal relationships."


~Image Consultants enhance individual's appearance, behaviour & communication. ~


For next step I had to learn about the sentences, verb, meaning, clothing, body/ face shape, colors, comparison, many more things in an article M given.
I realize that the article given to me provided very useful guidance.
So I get in touch a lot more new technique & knowledge.
almost 400 PGS to read through, a full & complete courses article of image consultant O_O!
WooooOO~~thx M given me a chance of learning again even I din know anything about this.
& He share a lot of news to me especially a free courses! WOW! too bad I doesn't had any certificate qualification. Perhaps make a fake 1? >_<"
I am still thinking about my CEO chair!! I would love it be delivered ASAP ~~ :)

Expected

I always expect & hope there's family reunion dinner...
A better communication without caring about the importance of any personal issue.
But,
This year is still the same as before...

I really disappointed & I actually pretty hate CNY season.
The only 2 things I love for CNY is hang out n visit frenz & holiday!
You knew me? Then you shall know why I mention this way...
So today I cooked maggie mee as dinner.
And I've been almost a year nvr been switch on the gas & cook.
Been awake early in the morning becoz mum asked to watched out the fire.
Ohh then I just rmb I had to re-email an artwork for M. I have to prepared for next project as he's going to met me during holidays.
My mum keep numbling like others parents...
Find a guy~go dated~married~

Ok fine, this topic again? since she's not going understand what I meant so I better just keep quiet!
Evening, dunno what to do so I paint my door...but becoz I'm not really in mood (perhaps of CNY emotional method) so I din paint as what I plan...But my youngest bro do help me out a bit & we had fun with it.

Been super exhausted wednesday, been to many places...
I've order for my chair...COOL!
It's not like a leader chair but still very comfortable for seat. RM 800 ( mby get cheaper) O_O!
I may get it by next week or next 2 week~YES!!! & planning to get another readings chair with elena.
It looks like we really do had many same common & interest.
I get to knew a lot about her...She actually decided to divorce with her husband.
I'm able to understand why she meant so...I met her husband 2-3 times before.
Even though we nvr talked before by just seeing his face. But I can see that a little personalities of him.
& there's 1 nite she grab me out to 1U at 9pm....for what purpose!? She's looking for a purse...
& guess what...I walked into "GUESS-CK-GUCCI" etc super branded shop with her to looked after her purse & bag...
& minimum 1k per each...(~>"<~) Whoaaa!!!!??~~
She just kept non-stop asking me to find & share property to build a office & personal area with me.
I really hope too~~But!! I really had no money la!! My total amount din even reach 4 figure in bank, so I am consider very poor! -.-"
When she offer me to semenyih work & she ask that boss pay me RM 2.5k +~ I am STUNNED!
Even now is not the right time after consider about many method...
She mentioned that M kinda scary also hahaha!! But then she said M also 看中 me.
HUH? Eh? what's that suppose to mean? talent?attitude?personality? <- So as you too?
Looking forward to go courses & learnt from her...
My boss adviced me get used to it/ practice more after studied.
( I'll kept it in mind! )

I gave few numbers of fren to an agent, if you received his call...just tell that you're not interested.
If you do interested just continue...but pls dun act like stupid by blaming ppl becoz of giving your numbers.
They had to continue their business as well...Don't you think so? Pls learnt to reject by a right way but not saying that they are cheaters or anonymous. I gave your no but not others becoz I trust you may act politely than any one else.
Recently I think deeply & always categories everyone's "background, personality, class, hobby, dream, opportunity, taste, attitude etc"
So I always think what should I act like / be while dealing any of them.

I figure 1 more thing after hang out with elena with her kids...
I actually pretty hate kiddo!!~becoz of making lots of trouble & noise than help out! -.-"

Another Sat

Prophets new year coming very soon. Have you prepared everything you need at home?
Doesn't have to ask me becoz I nvr done such thing before so I can say I save a lot of work. =P
Been kinda tired these week & last week...almost work until 2am i guess?
So I had dream during slept...
Hmm, honestly I often dream...
but once I dreamed, there's reason behind.
So I never been any horror or scary dream "yet".
2 days ago I dreamed myself been to furniture shop & searching for my lovely CEO chair haha!!~
I asked a lot question & run up & down all over the shop...
Guess I really want the chair very much? XD
I tot I'll be able to go look for my chair evening but Seems that elena was busying around & couldn't make it...So Perhaps we'll hv to postpone? I'll wait her call since she's always busy like M haha!~
Last week dreamed about "pls check previous blog post"~hahaha
So as ytdy, but I din really figure what reason behind...but perhaps I get to knew some.

Arrggh.
2 client spoil my mood very badly becoz they used my 5 hours on their editing.
So I had no time to go out for lunch...What the!?
But I charge them more than usual...becoz they really book my whole time from 11- end of work which 3pm.
And there's more client came in..to me =-=
I pushed away all to me colleague except certain issues.
Around 1pm, there's a china business man came in & request for printed out from email with his follower.
During the time of downloading the document (super duper slow!)
He sat there & watched me editing the document and communicated with some client.
He simply mention about my technology & communication skill.
So he ask a lot of question...
Him: Your compute-ring skill pretty good huh?especially editing...studied before?
Me: Hmm, Well..Most of the time self learning & get used to it, sure you'll be the same ^^
Him: Self learning?Wow?clever...It seems that your English pretty good too...
Me: haha~ Average la, self improvement is important lo... (becoz beside me there's 2 african sitting there & wait me editing their document which booked my whole day.)
Him: mind you giving me your phone number so that I can contact you?
Me: huh?Why?
Him: I'm just asking you to come c my office if you wish so...its just nearby here ^^
Him : If you wanna switch your career/job, come find me...my office was at.......
Me: (*HUH!?*)very close as well woh...but what business you dealing with?
Him: * explain* & sometimes you'll see my co name / photo at newspaper ^^
Me: ( I can't rmb much becoz a lot as well) oO?But so far I din hv decision of switch co yet haha~mind you gave me your business card so that I may contact you if I'm interested?
Him: Ohh...Too bad I din hv any with me now...I'm going backed china for CNY & will be back afterward & I'll call you.
Me: (He want me to join him that much?)Ohh...Anyway, here's my personal business card.
Him: You design yourself? Very nice...did you know website design as well?
Me: Nop, I'm just about to planned of some some courses for every section of it ^^.
Him: Ohhh,very good indeed...I wrote down my contact for you.
Me: Thx...
Him: I'll contact you after CNY once I came back ^^.You can visit my office if you like to.
Me: Okay~thx~Have a nice day sir =)

I'm thinking...
3-5 Boss asked the same question before...& so far only M succeed?
& Elena looking forward to work out with me sometimes...
Hahaha!! Becoz I had to think about the balancing of business.
Here come another business man who offered to hire me.
(My colleague din notice becoz she's out for lunch... LOL!)

It seems/felt that my colleague unhappy for sometimes.
The 1st reason I can think of...She think that I din really concentrate on my job?
But I din ever screw up each side & get my job done on both side.( so what's the matter? =-=)
The 2nd reason...Which I think confirm been included!She's actually jealous at me!
Because she noticed I get along with many client TOO closed.
Eg: I got others freelance job, M hired me, I lunch with client & deal with client directly especially phone call/email, I went/invited vacation & event with client.
But somehow I never think they are my client...but my fren~
& I really think she should learned to fren with client too?
(@.@") that china business man really seems a bit familiar...perhaps he really do been showed up in newspaper or TV before!?
What really happened if he really do called me then? But I think I should go & 8 har no matter how becoz he's from china who does business here..You know what I meant to! =P
Whatever haha...just treat it as a nice story.

Saturday.

I wish to sleep more after alarm rings...
It seems like being too hardworking on 1 of the M job these few days until 2am midnite...
But I'm glad most of the time M & his client like/satisfied with the design.
But I knew there's more amend jobs & checked up need to be done somehow.
I received his call again last nite & he's given further advice on the design...
Mostly some changes on those part I din even realize myself...
I learnt a lot from his comment & advice...
Thanks a lot!~
& I'm looking forward to take others courses with elena...should remind her becoz she's forgetful =-="
I get a weird dream again...But I knew its about my personal afterview about mature & childish attitude.
I realize I really hate ppl being so childish & keep on fooling ppl around.
I guess I was very serious for sometimes anyway. But somehow I learnt to accept their attitude & will just pretend ignore them to control my anger.
& as so far none any of them being over rude/joke wif me.
Finally Colleague help my document automatically & I finished right before 3pm sharp...
Now she's dare to open fm radio in office as she saw I always listen to music with my headset.
She receive jobs outside as freelancing aswell.
She even asked me question how I charge M jobs blah blah...
She knew I work for M & get very closed with some certain client & being fren.
Boss do always asked me how come I manage to get so closed to M, Elena & some others client.
She learnt to research & download a lot design artwork as I usually done in office during free hour for easy workout.
I always got my own way of doing things & get it done at the end no matter how.
Hah?She's being influence by me? GOOOD!!!~~hahaha...

Evening...
Ohh my GOOSH!! I felt my skin was burning...The weather is extremely hot!!
I saw an old lady sitting around the roadside wif her bike...
I dun hv to describe becoz she's somekind of person who searching for rubbish & recycled stuff to earn money & she's around 70 with no shoes & humpbacked.
I bought 3 soya bean ice & walked back to her & gave her 1...1 for mum & last for myself.
Me: Lao popo~ Are you thirsty? I gave you 1 of this drink...
She: Ohhh? What's this?
Me: Soya bean ice, good to drink with such weather...^^
She: Oo??How to drink?What is that??
Me: Here, I help you...(I put the straw in the drink and pass back to her)
She: Thank you!
I walked back home & I saw she's enjoying the drinks very much...
Only RM 1.20...I dun mind sharing it~
Will you?

Thanks to those fren for understanding me becoz I din really want to mess up & end up fighting each other just like what happened during my primary school time.
It was standard five...
closed to long holiday which we are going to move standard six class next year.
A boy keep on joking rudely & none-stop in-front of classmate/audience during our queue waiting the ring bell. I've given many warning to ask him stop pretend so rude & pls respect ppl. But he din do so...
Right before the ring bell...I end up fight with him. Well, everybody being shocked afterward even teachers.
I din get punished becoz I always had best performance & attitude all the time. But I hv responsibly to apologize & I do so.
You guys know what would happen, counseling? apologizing? parents interview?blah blah~

& I rmb I try to fight with a crazy mad dog before becoz it was chasing my mum's during her ride & scare the hell of her & she being bite on her leg...lucky not so injure since she's riding...
Ofcoz  I get bite & hurt but that dog died afterward...LOL!
I poke it with iron steel very badly & ran away.

I din talked to anybody for almost 2 month in class/school. All my fren was very afraid of me back there.
But they din really c me in class everyday becoz I am class monitor/school basketball team leader & also sport leader. I got instruction to practice everyday at basketball court & stadium for school competition & sport day. So I din even stay in class but outsite until the end of school day.
(that's how my skin started become so darken hahahahaha... =-=")
Hmm...I get at-least 7 games being listed by teacher to join the competition on school sport day.
And hey!!~for SPORT DAY ONLY!! WAH LAO!!??~
So I get "the best sport & trophy practitioner of the year" trophy...
Before school/tuition class start, I'll play 跳绳...me n 1 or 2 frenz was the best practitioner in that circles...LOL!
During the time in class especially free time, I played many other games with classmate...
My school basketball team got champion as well &  I've invited to join KL basketball team to met & joined others school team for others frenship competition...I rmb Our KL team been through competition with other's country team before...That was, really awesome & challenging!!~
All my trophies gone...I pretty miss it!!~T_T
And guess what...I felt REGRET for rejecting a basketball coach(secondary school athletic executives teacher) during Form 1-2 becoz she kept on offering me to join the basketball club & attend the sport competition...I only join some sport day event/competition...
My primary school life...every year & moment full with sports/competition/instruction/outdoor plan & responsibility. You wont even find me at home becoz I'm out to play.
& during Form 1/2 school life...I'm still very active & classmate seldom c me in class somehow...
Now I felt myself awful madness =-="
Hv you heard this story of me before?? Now you do... =)


You want ppl to respect you?pls learnt to respect ppl...(This was such a great quote)